Showing posts with label Social. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social. Show all posts

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Multitasking

So, Thursdays run (I'm still a little behind) was a nice run.  I met my last MPH advisee downtown at Our Daily Bread/Christopher's Place where I still occasionally meet up with the Back on My Feet team to run.  My advisee is someone whom I know because of Back on My Feet.  It is not typical to meet advisees at 5:30 in the morning, but since my advisee is actually a better runner than I am, a run from Our Daily Bread to the traffic circle in Harbor East, around the promenade, to the Under Armour offices and back for a nice 7.9 was a great way to carry on a conversation about her future as she approaches finishing her MPH capstone.

7.9 miles from my last location takes me from the western edge of Cambridge, OH, past New Concord, Ohio.  No Catholic churches along the 7.9 mile stretch us US 22/US 40 that runs from Cambridge to where I am now on my virtual pilgrimage.  Instead, if I were actually running along I would just be enjoying the way between small towns in southern Ohio.

My advisee and I talked about her future for most of the run.  It was cold but each of us was dressed with enough layers to be comfortable and despite spending a good bit of the run on the promenade by the Harbor there was no appreciable wind.

At the end, we were discussing how much effort it takes to get psyched up for each run.  I answered that it doesn't take much effort for me.  There are particular workouts--a really challenging tempo run or a really challenging track workout or a very hot (or very cold) long distance run. Any of these might take some extra effort.  In contrast, my advisee commented that she often has to work on getting herself psyched for a workout.  It is interesting because she has historically been a better runner than I am.  Better PR's at most if not all distances.  But, despite being more than a decade my junior, she also has run more than I have.  Or run for more years continuously than I have.  So maybe, it is something that a person doesn't look forward to quite as much or in the same way.  

I realized that running is so much more than just a workout for me.  It is social--thus the multitasking advisor-advisee 7.9 mile run at 5:30 AM.  It is spiritual--tied to how I think about my relationship with something bigger and how spending time while running thinking about what those bigger things might be.  There are goals--ever since completing my first half marathon that I had to register for back in 2009, I have not gone more than 6 months without some type of race.  This year, running is part of an overall structured experience for the year--my virtual pilgrimage. That is both spiritual and creative.  I write.  I tie things together.  I connect the dots.  

So, on Thursday specifically I was multitasking and running serves a multitasking purpose in my life in general at this time.   

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Because I Can

"Because I can" is a phrase that I mentioned in yesterday's blog entry, and it is a wonderful thing to be able to say.

Does it need to be tempered?  Of course.  It needs to be tempered with a moral compass.  It needs to be tempered with a sense of what can be balanced in my life.  It needs to be tempered by a lot of things.

But when it comes to running that is part of my exercise routine (as long it does not interfere with work and family), it is an absolutely great thing to be able to say.

I run--because I can.

I run a great distance--because I can.

I run relatively (and it is all relative after all) fast--because I can.

I cross the finish line--because I can.

I run races--because I can.

I train for very long distance races--because I can.

Is it always best to run as far as I can or as hard and fast as I can?  Just about every assessment of training that I have ever read says "no".  Does that change my behavior?  A little.

I will occasionally take a day off.

If there are days on which my body really only can go at a slower pace, I don't stress any more.

And if a race isn't perfect--I've had enough good races that I may fuss about money spent to register for a race that didn't go so well, but I don't really worry about it any more.  Still, that doesn't prevent the butterflies before each race that I mentioned yesterday.

But the "because I can" attitude makes the end of each run great.  And it means that I can continue to set goals around how fast and how far and not just "let me get out and see what I can do."  It helps to give me a sense of why I run.

Not everyone needs to have goals about times and distances and races.  Some people can just enjoy running for the sake of running.  I admire those people.

Not everyone needs to build a social life around their running.  I admire those people as well, and I personally have a mixture of social and individual experiences while running that is just fine.

Not everyone who runs needs to run to feel like they are fulfilled in life.  That is fine.  But that is not me.

Are all my characteristics the right ones?  For me--yes.  For everyone else--I'll leave that for everyone else to decide.

What I focus on is the fact that everyone probably has a "because I can" thing for themselves.  Something that they do and when asked why they simply answer "because I can".  I haven't asked others about this.  But I do wonder how much each person gets from something like this.  And whether each person feels that the "because I can" activity helps them to be the best person they can be.  Certainly my running helps me be the best me that I can be.

And if someday I can't, then I am sure that at first I will be disappointed.  And right now I cannot imagine not being able to say that I am running because I can.

But I am adaptable and I will find a new activity if and when that time ever comes that helps to continue to define who I am, help me achieve self actualization, and move ahead.  And why is that?

Because I can.